A separation agreement is a great way for a couple to formalize how they’re going to deal with both temporary and permanent matters as they prepare for a divorce (or even look to avoid one through taking some time apart). In Lowcountry, SC, a separation agreement is never actually required by law, but this useful document must follow the law to be valid. A separation agreement attorney can help ensure that your agreement will pass muster and protect your best interests.
If you and a spouse are considering a separation, whether this is the required separation period before filing for divorce or you are simply separating to consider your future, a separation agreement can help you deal with issues like how you’ll divide your property, support and custody of your children, and temporary spousal support. An agreement is particularly useful if you’re entering the required separation period before you can file for divorce. This interim period can be difficult to navigate, but if you and your spouse can agree on the major points of how to deal with your property and children, it can go much more smoothly.
Once you’re ready for a formal divorce, a separation agreement becomes, if anything, even more valuable. If you and your spouse cannot agree on the details of how to separate, then the court is going to do it for you. With the right separation agreement, you retain control over issues like who keeps what property, how benefits and insurance are divided, what you’ll do with your children, and much more. The courts generally prefer it if a couple can come to an agreement on their own, and if you can, you will save yourself time and legal fees. An agreement like this can also go a long way towards establishing a better post-divorce relationship, and if you have children, this can be especially important.
Whatever agreement you and your spouse come to, however, it must be acceptable to the courts. While the courts do prefer that couples make their own decisions about issues like child custody and support, the court has the final say over whether the terms of your agreement will be accepted. That’s because, when it comes to your children, the court is obligated by law to act in the best interests of the children, not the best interests of the parents. And when it comes to asset division, the court will also want to ensure that you have divided things in an equitable manner.
If you leave things up to the court, they will divide things equitably, but they may divide things in a way that isn’t really in your best interests. For example, a housewife is usually legally entitled to a share of the retirement benefits that her working husband has accrued, particularly for a longer marriage that resulted in children, and where the housewife did not pursue her own career in order to care for the children. But cashing in a retirement account to divide up the benefits can destroy its value. In their separation agreement, the couple could find other assets to give the wife that would enable the husband to keep all the retirement benefits and thus keep the account intact.
There’s a lot more that your separation agreement can do. It can, for example, require one of the spouses to make a will with certain provisions that affect various assets. You might do this, for example, if one spouse wants to keep the family home during their lifetime, but the couple agrees that they want the home to be sold upon that partner’s death and something specific done with the proceeds. Your agreement can also change marital property into separate property if done correctly. It’s important to understand that if the court believes the provisions of the agreement are not equitable or are “unconscionable,” they will overturn it.
It’s always important to understand that children’s rights are not changed by their parents’ divorce or by their parents’ separation agreement. Parents cannot take from children what the law sees as the child’s right to expect from a parent. This means the court will carefully scrutinize any clauses to your agreement that have to do with your children and make sure these are in the best interests of your children.
The court always reserves the right to modify any support, visitation, or custody issues you may agree to. However, if you work with a qualified and experienced family law attorney as you develop your separation agreement, there is a high likelihood that you’ll be able to do things the way you wish. Your attorney can explain to you what the court is looking for and how the court will likely view your agreement and its terms.
Your agreement can also determine whether there is any alimony or spousal support, how much it will be, and how long it will last. In a divorce, the court may or may not order alimony, but if the couple can come to their own mutually agreeable decision, the court will typically honor this. Figuring out some type of temporary spousal support is often important for the separation period before a divorce, especially if one of the spouses has been the primary breadwinner up until this point.
Finally, you will also want to consider how you’ll keep up with paying down debt and who will take care of the various expenses, particularly if you have children. If you are entering a separation period and setting up a temporary arrangement, you’ll want to think about how the utility bills will be paid, how you’ll divide up food and other necessities for the children, who will be keeping up with paying credit cards, what to do with medical debt, and whether you will file your tax returns jointly or separately, if applicable. If you are setting up a permanent agreement for a divorce, bear in mind that the courts will consider all debts to be shared property and will also look at how debt is divided to make sure it is equitable.
Be careful of signing any agreement without the help of a separation agreement attorney. If you sign such an agreement, then you are bound by it unless you’re able to prove that you were under duress to sign or that there was fraud. Proving duress is a high bar. You’ll need to show that your spouse threatened you with something illegal to prove duress, and simply threatening to take you to court or fight you on the divorce isn’t illegal.
Once the court has signed off on the separation agreement, it becomes binding, and the court will enforce it. If a spouse does not keep the terms of the separation agreement, they can be held in contempt of court. They can also be fined, sent to jail, and have other action taken against them.
Contact the experienced separation agreement lawyers at Ballinger Law Firm today & schedule your free consultation. We proudly serve Mt Pleasant & all throughout South Carolina. Visit our law office at:
Ballinger Law Firm – Mt Pleasant
858 W Lowcountry Blvd,
Mt Pleasant, SC 29464, United States
Phone: (843) 412 9507
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